Is My Partner A Narcissist Quiz?

Know whether or not your partner is a narcissist by taking this, “Is My Partner A Narcissist Quiz?”

Maybe your partner does not take you seriously in the relationship. Do you feel like you may be just their punching bag, where they always empty their resentment, sadness, and frustration? Do they use you as a punchline to crack jokes and make fun? Do they never accept the responsibility in the relationship?

If you are nodding your head in all these questions, then there is a possibility that your partner is a narcissist.

Now how do you know whether or not your partner is a narcissist? Take this quiz and support your doubtful thoughts.

Is My Partner A Narcissist Quiz?

Here are some questions for you,

1. Does your partner argue a lot?

A. Yes! They have an argument for everything and anything

B. Absolutely

C. They argue about a few things

D. No, they do not argue and also listen to other people’s ideas and opinions

2. Does your partner accept contrary viewpoints?

A. Never

B. No, they would be mad when someone contradicts them

C. No, they ignore them completely

D. Yes, they do accept it

3. Is your partner envious of other people?

A. Yes! Jealousy is always on their list of emotions

B. Yes, Sometimes they get jealous

C. Rarely

D. No, they do not get jealous

4. How does your partner react to criticism?

A. They are furious when criticized

B. They get defensive

C. They ignore it

D. They try to listen to the critics and try to work on it

5. Are they considerate of your feelings and emotions?

A. No, they are inconsiderate

B. Hardly

C. They try sometimes

D. Yes, they are considerate

6. Does your partner offer anything to anyone? Are they helpful?

A. No, they do not like it when someone asks for something

B. Yes, but only to get something in return

C. Yes, but not out of generosity, but to expect something from them

D. Yes, they are helpful but only to display their dignity and not because they wish to give or help

7. Does your partner often break the rules?

A. Always, rules are not for them

B. Yes, they take pride in doing so

C. Sometimes

D. No, not really

8. How does your partner treat you when you do not give them something they want?

A. They get angry and upset

B. They give me the silent treatment and withhold affection

C. They give me the cold shoulder but get over it eventually

D. They move on and would not ask again

9. Do they think they are special?

A. Always, no one else matters to them

B. Yes, they think they are special

C. Yes, sometimes

D. Yes, but they are indeed special

10. When you have an important conversation, they…

A. Always, they are the focal point, as everything is about them

B. They shift to other topics to skip what you wish to discuss

C. Sometimes they listen and sometimes just ignore the topic

D. Yes, they are attentive and also have feedback or an opinion to help me

11. Does your partner lack empathy?

A. Yes, always

B. Absolutely

C. Sometimes

D. No, not really

12. Does your partner think they are more important in the relationship?

A. Yes, it is sickening

B. Yes, always

C. Sometimes

D. No

13. Do you feel dominated by your partner?

A. Yes, always

B. Sometimes

C. Rarely

D. No, not really

14. “Is there attitude like MY WAY OR HIGHWAY”?

A. Yes, always

B. They do not say it but we end up doing what they like or wish

C. Sometimes

D. No

15. Is your partner physically, mentally, or emotionally abusive?

A. Yes, always

B. Sometimes

C. No

D. I am not sure

16. Does your partner respect you?

A. No, never

B. Sometimes

C. If they need something from me

D. Yes, I guess

17. Do they try to isolate you from your friends and family?

A. Yes, they do

B. Sometimes

C. No

D. I am not sure

18. Pick a quality or a trait that suits them the best

A. They are self-absorbed and boastful

B. They are bossy, rude, disrespectful, and arrogant

C. They are manipulative and have no real emotions

D. They are kind, sweet, humble, and everything that a good person has

19. How does your partner handle conflicts in the relationship?

A. They always blame me

B. Try to triangulate the situation

C. Seek solutions

D. Withdraws and ignores the conflict

20. Do you love them despite their flaws or you are compromising?

A. Yes, I love them because they are amazing

B. Yes, I love them despite their flaws

C. No, I am compromising with my feelings

D. Love is fading away